Try to fit in and hope to not be left out, it might seem like a safe bet. To just go with the flow. That's not why you are here. You are here to grow, yourself and others, as far as you can take it. You'll need the willingness to change, to be uncomfortable, to assume risk, to make a promise and keep it,
No matter how many forks in the road, how many heads to turn, how many hills to climb, how many bridges to build & burn. No compass exists, no roadmap is laid out for you. And once you know where you want to go, it will require several attempts. But if you persevere, and value your journey as part of your destination, you will make it.
You should not choose to fit in. You can choose to stand out. Take a leap!